Thoughts and Whispers

“Forgive, but not forget.” Tapi beberapa orang mengatakan bahwa memaafkan tanpa melupakan adalah sia-sia. Gue sih nggak setuju. Nggak ada yang sia-sia dari setiap kata “maaf” yang kita ucapkan, karena memberi maaf artinya membuka kembali pintu silahturahmi. Namun, melupakan itu soal lain. Memberi maaf buat gue sama artinya dengan memberi hadiah, meskipun hadiahnya nggak terlihat secara fisik. Sudah bagus diberi hadiah, masa masih minta hadiah tambahan berupa “lupa”? Ketika pernyataan maaf gue diterima, gue sudah cukup senang. Meminta orang lain melupakan kesalahan gue itu namanya “ngelunjak”… Tapi, mengingat-ingat kesalahan orang lain juga nggak baik bagi diri sendiri sih. Gue lebih memilih untuk berdamai dengan kesalahan orang lain ketimbang melupakannya. Agak malas juga kalo ingat-ingat setiap peristiwa nggak menyenangkan yang gue alami, tapi gue memang nggak bisa ngelupain. Kalau gue lupain dan terjadi lagi, orang yang paling patut disalahin adalah diri gue sendiri: k...

You know you’re on the right track in life when you become uninterested in looking back, and eager to take the next step.   They flow with life, not against it.  – When everything in life seems to be going wrong, mostly it’s meant to go wrong so that you may outgrow the things you need to outgrow.  Keep this in mind.  Life may wreck your plans when your plans are about to wreck you.  For everything you’ve lost, you’ve gained something else.  You don’t have to accept it; it’s just easier if you do.  When you try to control too much, you enjoy too little.  Sometimes you simply need to take a deep breath and appreciate what is. They let go of self-defeating thoughts.  – Breath by breath, let go of fear, expectation, anger, regret and frustration.  Let go of the need for approval too.  You don’t need any of it.  The world is as we are inside.  What we think, we see, and we ultimately become.  So choose your thoughts...

Haiiii. Ini lama bgt gw nggak ng- post  disini.... Hal yang lagi mau gw ceritain disini adalah soal perkenalan gw dengan seseorang. Called him 'D'. First, ini cerita cuma flashback awal perkenalan gw dengan dia. But yg mau gw share disini adalah saat.... ya baca aja deh ya :p thanks to Facebook, gw bisa berkenalan dengan dia  Yap, gw add dia. Dia confirm, but pada saat itu kan semua org nulis di wall seperti "Thanks for add, siapa dimana?" atau "Thanks, siapa nih?" dsb lah. Dia juga melakukan hal yg sama seperti itu, tapi dia lakukan bukan di wall Fb gw, melainkan di chat. Kira-kira seperti ini "Hai, siapa nih?", blm sempat merespon, hal yg pertama gw respon bukan ngasih tau siapa gw, melainkan kenapa dia bales lwt chat bkn lwt wall aja. Dan kata dia "sori gw takut spam di wall, tapi kl lu mau di wall jg gapapa sih" yaaa nggak penting juga sih bahas ini tapi gak tau knp gw pgn bahas aja. Then, gw (mungkin) lama-kelamaan suka sa...

After all, I had a lot of time to watched many drama include the japanese' drama, the korean's drama 'till the US' drama (?) hahaha by the way when I spent my time to watched this drama (Lovely complex), there was something interesting in it opening part. When the narator said a 'quotes' but it long enough. It about love but it really complex like it title. You want to knew more? LOVELY COMPLEX You fall in love with someone As a result you come to hate yourself If this is the case, this someone is not meant for you This someone is not your destiny For destiny is..... Nah! But guys, I thought that it quotes not finished at all. It finished when you have watched the drama 'till the end. Haha but it really funny though. And I was conclude that it would be "for destiny is.... the someone who can accept you for who you are" :) Quotes by: Lovely Complex Drama-Japanese' Drama.  x