Thoughts and Whispers

“I’m not in this world to live up to your expectations and you’re not in this world to live up to mine.” ―Bruce Lee T he biggest disappointments in our lives are often the result of misplaced expectations.  This is especially true when it comes to our relationships and interactions with others. T empering your expectations of other people will greatly reduce unnecessary frustration and suffering, in both your life and theirs, and help you refocus on the things that truly matter. W hich means it’s time to… 1.  Stop expecting them to agree with you. You deserve to be happy.  You deserve to live a life you are excited about.  Don’t let the opinions of others make you forget that.  You are not in this world to live up to the expectations of others, nor should you feel that others are here to live up to yours.  In fact, the more you approve of your own decisions in life, the less approval you need from everyone else. You have to dare to be yourse...

I think we need some refreshment in our brain :p so, I post this. - - - - - - - - - -  Here’s a goodie for you:   Cna yuo raed tihs?  Suteids sohw taht olny aoubt 55 prcenet of plepoe can (atculley trheer is no scuh sudty).   I cdnuolt blveiee taht I cluod aulaclty uesdnatnrd waht I was rdanieg.  Tihs sohws us the phaonmneal pweor of the hmuan mnid.  Aoccdrnig to rscheearch at an Elingsh Uinervtisy, it dseno’t mtaetr waht oerdr the ltteres in a wrod are in, the olny iproamtnt tihng is taht the frsit and lsat ltteer are in the rghit pclae.  The rset of the txet can be a taotl mses and you can sitll raed it whotuit a pboerlm.  Tihs is bcuseae the huamn mnid deos not raed ervey lteter by istlef, but isntaed rades the wrod as a wlohe.  Azanmig huh?  Yaeh and we awlyas tghuhot slpelnig was ipmorantt! Pretty interesting… I’m not exactly sure who wrote it.  I originally saw thi...

Remember today, for it is the beginning. Today marks the start of a brave new future. Start spending time with the right people.  – These are the people you enjoy, who love and appreciate you, and who encourage you to improve in healthy and exciting ways.  They are the ones who make you feel more alive, and not only embrace who you are now, but also embrace and embody who you want to be, unconditionally. Start facing your problems head on.  – It isn’t your problems that define you, but how you react to them and recover from them.  Problems will not disappear unless you take action.  Do what you can, when you can, and acknowledge what you’ve done.  It’s all about taking baby steps in the right direction, inch by inch.  These inches count, they add up to yards and miles in the long run. Start being honest with yourself about everything.  – Be honest about what’s right, as well as what needs to be changed.  Be honest about what you w...

Even in times of financial uncertainty, it’s always important to keep things in perspective. Wealth is the ability to fully experience life. - Henry David Thoreau You didn’t go to sleep hungry last night. You didn’t go to sleep outside. You had a choice of what clothes to wear this morning. You hardly broke a sweat today. You didn’t spend a minute in fear. You have access to clean drinking water. You have access to medical care. You have access to the Internet. You can read. You have the right to vote. Some might say you are rich, so remember to be grateful for all the things you do have. Best Regards, xox

You know you’re on the right track in life when you become uninterested in looking back, and eager to take the next step.   They flow with life, not against it.  – When everything in life seems to be going wrong, mostly it’s meant to go wrong so that you may outgrow the things you need to outgrow.  Keep this in mind.  Life may wreck your plans when your plans are about to wreck you.  For everything you’ve lost, you’ve gained something else.  You don’t have to accept it; it’s just easier if you do.  When you try to control too much, you enjoy too little.  Sometimes you simply need to take a deep breath and appreciate what is. They let go of self-defeating thoughts.  – Breath by breath, let go of fear, expectation, anger, regret and frustration.  Let go of the need for approval too.  You don’t need any of it.  The world is as we are inside.  What we think, we see, and we ultimately become.  So choose your thoughts...

HI GUYS! Kembali lagi sama gw. Kali ini gw akan menjelaska 'tema' beberapa post gw ke depan. Entah apa yang merasuki gw untuk berpikir bahwa 'kayaknya bikin english post  di blog seru nih'. And, here it is . Gw sedang mulai merancang tema, judul, ingin post apa dsb untuk post ke depan itu. Mungkin nanti gw akan menyertakan credit  di bawah tulisan kali ya. Soalnya, gw masih belajar soal motivating person in the real life . Nah, disini sih sebenernya post gw nanti bukan motivating juga ya. Lebih ke apa yg gw rasain dan pengen gw share aja sih. Abis gw juga ngerasain 'butuh akan hal yang gw post' itu. Misal, cara nikmatin hidup, hal-hal yang ngga harus lo lakuin atau apa deh. Semacam kayak Do's and Dont's  gitu. Referensinya masih sekitar dari pengalaman pribadi, buku kayak The Secret  dan berbagai macam buku lainnya, serta blog-blog lain sih. By the way,  kalo bisa sih di baca dulu post -nya. Bukan langsung di copas ya :p soalnya, copas itu te...