Thoughts and Whispers

“Forgive, but not forget.” Tapi beberapa orang mengatakan bahwa memaafkan tanpa melupakan adalah sia-sia. Gue sih nggak setuju. Nggak ada yang sia-sia dari setiap kata “maaf” yang kita ucapkan, karena memberi maaf artinya membuka kembali pintu silahturahmi. Namun, melupakan itu soal lain. Memberi maaf buat gue sama artinya dengan memberi hadiah, meskipun hadiahnya nggak terlihat secara fisik. Sudah bagus diberi hadiah, masa masih minta hadiah tambahan berupa “lupa”? Ketika pernyataan maaf gue diterima, gue sudah cukup senang. Meminta orang lain melupakan kesalahan gue itu namanya “ngelunjak”… Tapi, mengingat-ingat kesalahan orang lain juga nggak baik bagi diri sendiri sih. Gue lebih memilih untuk berdamai dengan kesalahan orang lain ketimbang melupakannya. Agak malas juga kalo ingat-ingat setiap peristiwa nggak menyenangkan yang gue alami, tapi gue memang nggak bisa ngelupain. Kalau gue lupain dan terjadi lagi, orang yang paling patut disalahin adalah diri gue sendiri: k...

rue wealth is the ability to fully experience life. - Henry David Thoreau Y eay. We've been arrived in this post. I'd love to every-inspirational words and thoughts. It belongs to Marc and Angel (and I REALLY LOVE THEM). So, please enjoy this post :) You are alive. You are able to see the sunrise and the sunset. You are able to  hear birds sing and waves crash . You can walk outside and feel the breeze through your hair and the sun’s warmth on your skin. You have tasted the sweetness of chocolate cake. You didn’t go to sleep hungry last night. You awoke this morning with a roof over your head. You had a choice of what clothes to wear. You haven’t feared for your life today. You have  overcome some considerable obstacles , and you have learned  and survived. You often worry about what you’re going to do with your life – your career, your family, the next step, etc. – which means you have ambition, passion, drive, and the freedom to make your ...

Remember today, for it is the beginning. Today marks the start of a brave new future. Start spending time with the right people.  – These are the people you enjoy, who love and appreciate you, and who encourage you to improve in healthy and exciting ways.  They are the ones who make you feel more alive, and not only embrace who you are now, but also embrace and embody who you want to be, unconditionally. Start facing your problems head on.  – It isn’t your problems that define you, but how you react to them and recover from them.  Problems will not disappear unless you take action.  Do what you can, when you can, and acknowledge what you’ve done.  It’s all about taking baby steps in the right direction, inch by inch.  These inches count, they add up to yards and miles in the long run. Start being honest with yourself about everything.  – Be honest about what’s right, as well as what needs to be changed.  Be honest about what you w...

You ultimately become what you repeatedly do.  If your habits aren’t helping you, they’re hurting you. 1. Focusing on everyone’s story except your own. Don’t be so satisfied with the success stories of others and how things have gone for them that you forget to write your own.  Unfold your own tale and bring it to life.  You have everything you need to become what you are capable of becoming.  Incredible change happens when you decide to take control.  This means  consuming less and creating more .  It means refusing to let others do your thinking, talking, and deciding for you.  It means learning to respect and use your own ideas and instincts to write your passage. If you want your life story to soar to new heights, you’ve got to clear a path, reduce the time-sinks and burdens weighing you down, and pick up the things that give you wings.  Keep your best wishes and your biggest goals close to your heart and dedicate time to them ev...

HI GUYS! Kembali lagi sama gw. Kali ini gw akan menjelaska 'tema' beberapa post gw ke depan. Entah apa yang merasuki gw untuk berpikir bahwa 'kayaknya bikin english post  di blog seru nih'. And, here it is . Gw sedang mulai merancang tema, judul, ingin post apa dsb untuk post ke depan itu. Mungkin nanti gw akan menyertakan credit  di bawah tulisan kali ya. Soalnya, gw masih belajar soal motivating person in the real life . Nah, disini sih sebenernya post gw nanti bukan motivating juga ya. Lebih ke apa yg gw rasain dan pengen gw share aja sih. Abis gw juga ngerasain 'butuh akan hal yang gw post' itu. Misal, cara nikmatin hidup, hal-hal yang ngga harus lo lakuin atau apa deh. Semacam kayak Do's and Dont's  gitu. Referensinya masih sekitar dari pengalaman pribadi, buku kayak The Secret  dan berbagai macam buku lainnya, serta blog-blog lain sih. By the way,  kalo bisa sih di baca dulu post -nya. Bukan langsung di copas ya :p soalnya, copas itu te...