Thoughts and Whispers

“I’m not in this world to live up to your expectations and you’re not in this world to live up to mine.” ―Bruce Lee T he biggest disappointments in our lives are often the result of misplaced expectations.  This is especially true when it comes to our relationships and interactions with others. T empering your expectations of other people will greatly reduce unnecessary frustration and suffering, in both your life and theirs, and help you refocus on the things that truly matter. W hich means it’s time to… 1.  Stop expecting them to agree with you. You deserve to be happy.  You deserve to live a life you are excited about.  Don’t let the opinions of others make you forget that.  You are not in this world to live up to the expectations of others, nor should you feel that others are here to live up to yours.  In fact, the more you approve of your own decisions in life, the less approval you need from everyone else. You have to dare to be yourse...

Here we go . Gue akan menceritakan bagaimana gue menentukan jurusan ini untuk menjadi jurusan kuliah. Ini terjadi secara tiba-tiba. Kalau kamu ngerasa gak pas disitu, ya tinggalkan. Kronologi Gue mendaftar PTN di situs SNMPTN dan gagal di keduanya. Gue nggak mengikuti SBMPTN-nya maupun JALUR MANDIRI atau JALUR XXX—apalah itu—yang menghabiskan uang. Gue cuma ikut SNMPTN tok ! Di SNMPTN gue memilih jurusan Biologi di Universitas X dan Pendidikan Biologi di Universitas Y. Hasilnya? Ya, gagal sih. Tapi, gue nggak nyesel kok. Jauh sebelum daftar SNMPTN, gue udah mempersiapkan Universitas swasta sebagai cadangan, yang kini jadi tempat dimana gue kuliah. Next , jurusan yang saat itu gue ambil di Univ T adalah Prodi D3 Kebidanan. Ya, ini sebenernya bukan 100% kemauan gue. Ini penggabungan 50% kemauan orangtua+30% kemauan anggota keluarga lain+20% kemauan gue. Salah? Iya pasti! Emang kemana sih sebenernya minat gue ini? Ada beberapa minat yang gak kedapetan perhatian dari keluarga, d...

TADAAAAAAAAAAA AKU SUDAH KEMBALI LAGI Hahaha. Setelah sekian lama gue menghilang, kini gue kembali lagi dengan post  yang sudah siap gue (akan) sajikan. Salah satunya, mengenai fakultas perkuliahan gue saat ini yaitu, F.K.M. Apa itu F.K.M? Yes . Fakultas Kesehatan Masyarakat. Dimana??? Di  sini silakan di cek yaa;) Lalu, buat kalian yang masih bingung, disana belajar apa aja? Ngapain aja nantinya? Lulusannya ngapain? Oke, next time gue post  ya #nosolution :p hahaha tenang aja, pendahuluannya ada dibawah ini kok. So, check this out! Bergesernya perkembangan jaman dari era yang serba tradisional menjadi serba modern, membuat perubahan jaman yang sangat signifikan, hal ini salah satunya ditandai dari semakin berkembangnnya kasus-kasus kecelakaan yang terjadi di masyarakat seperti: kecelakaan kerja, virus penyakit mematikan, gizi buruk, kerusakan genetika dan lain sebagainya.  Hal inilah yang menjadi dasar mengapa ilmu kesehatan masyarakat wajib ...

I think we need some refreshment in our brain :p so, I post this. - - - - - - - - - -  Here’s a goodie for you:   Cna yuo raed tihs?  Suteids sohw taht olny aoubt 55 prcenet of plepoe can (atculley trheer is no scuh sudty).   I cdnuolt blveiee taht I cluod aulaclty uesdnatnrd waht I was rdanieg.  Tihs sohws us the phaonmneal pweor of the hmuan mnid.  Aoccdrnig to rscheearch at an Elingsh Uinervtisy, it dseno’t mtaetr waht oerdr the ltteres in a wrod are in, the olny iproamtnt tihng is taht the frsit and lsat ltteer are in the rghit pclae.  The rset of the txet can be a taotl mses and you can sitll raed it whotuit a pboerlm.  Tihs is bcuseae the huamn mnid deos not raed ervey lteter by istlef, but isntaed rades the wrod as a wlohe.  Azanmig huh?  Yaeh and we awlyas tghuhot slpelnig was ipmorantt! Pretty interesting… I’m not exactly sure who wrote it.  I originally saw thi...

rue wealth is the ability to fully experience life. - Henry David Thoreau Y eay. We've been arrived in this post. I'd love to every-inspirational words and thoughts. It belongs to Marc and Angel (and I REALLY LOVE THEM). So, please enjoy this post :) You are alive. You are able to see the sunrise and the sunset. You are able to  hear birds sing and waves crash . You can walk outside and feel the breeze through your hair and the sun’s warmth on your skin. You have tasted the sweetness of chocolate cake. You didn’t go to sleep hungry last night. You awoke this morning with a roof over your head. You had a choice of what clothes to wear. You haven’t feared for your life today. You have  overcome some considerable obstacles , and you have learned  and survived. You often worry about what you’re going to do with your life – your career, your family, the next step, etc. – which means you have ambition, passion, drive, and the freedom to make your ...

Remember today, for it is the beginning. Today marks the start of a brave new future. Start spending time with the right people.  – These are the people you enjoy, who love and appreciate you, and who encourage you to improve in healthy and exciting ways.  They are the ones who make you feel more alive, and not only embrace who you are now, but also embrace and embody who you want to be, unconditionally. Start facing your problems head on.  – It isn’t your problems that define you, but how you react to them and recover from them.  Problems will not disappear unless you take action.  Do what you can, when you can, and acknowledge what you’ve done.  It’s all about taking baby steps in the right direction, inch by inch.  These inches count, they add up to yards and miles in the long run. Start being honest with yourself about everything.  – Be honest about what’s right, as well as what needs to be changed.  Be honest about what you w...

These questions have no right or wrong answers. Because sometimes asking the right questions is the answer. How old would you be if you didn’t know how old you are? Which is worse, failing or never trying? If life is so short, why do we do so many things we don’t like and like so many things we don’t do? When it’s all said and done, will you have said more than you’ve done? What is the one thing you’d most like to change about the world? If happiness was the national currency, what kind of work would make you rich? Are you doing what you believe in, or are you settling for what you are doing? If the average human life span was 40 years, how would you live your life differently? To what degree have you actually controlled the course your life has taken? Are you more worried about doing things right, or doing the right things? You’re having lunch with three people you respect and admire.  They all start criticizing a close friend of yours, not knowing she is your ...